venting post.
not one person is perfect. things happen. whether you are a complete stranger to me, or one of my closest friends or family, i get bugged by certain types of assumptions.
i wish people would not always have some sort of blame for things that occur. there is not always a reason for such things. sometimes things just happen. sometimes there is a reason, sometimes there is not. being in one situation or another, doesn't mean that is why something is happening.
it bugs me a lot when something is out of character, or just not normal, and someone will always say, well, it is because of such and such, etc. not always!
we are all probably like this in some way, shape, or form. i am sure i am guilty of it. i try hard not to be like that. there are others who are more like that. i try hard to not be.
it just bugs me when things are said or done, and the reason given for that type of behavior, or what not, is because of some other reason. maybe it isn't. maybe it is happening just because, and not because of some other influence or situation. it gets old. just accept that sometimes, it is what it is, and whether the situation were one way or another way, it is not necessarily the excuse that the situation being blamed for, is like that.
i am sure i make no sense to you the reader, but to myself i do, because i understand what i am trying to write, sometimes my brain, mouth, and fingers don't always go together to a sense. but really, this is me venting and i am not the most grammatically correct person out there, so this doesn't make sense. so what i am saying is, be and let be. and rather than place blame on something or someone, accept the fact that it is how it is. there is not always a reason for why things are. sometimes they just are.
sorry if i am leaving you thoroughly confused. like i said, this is a vent. my way of getting it out there. and something to think about before making a judgement or assumption.
nothing has happened, this is just something that has bothered me for a long time. and sometimes i see it displayed, and this time, it was enough to drive me crazy.
vent over. the end.